my mantra

I love this cartoon, It is me too a tee. The one thing that I really truly miss about my husband is his ability to "keep our home" He loves to grocery shop, clean, do laundry, etc. It may not be perfect but at least it gets done. I used to have a "house fairy, aka housekeeper" but when Mike went into the hospital there was not enough money to keep her around. I tell ya.... my house shows it. Anyone have any great ideas to change my mind?